Let’s talk about sex for a moment, in particular, things no one ever tells you about one-night stands. You might be a lady who is new to the idea of getting involved with another person, or a guy who has not yet had the experience. That is OK. We are here to help.
Dirty talking is a necessary component of any type of sexual activity. Even if it is a one-night stand, there will be some type of communication – a dirty conversation.
Firstly, don’t be shy. You should be comfortable enough to tell your partner what you are feeling and thinking. This is different from the first time you two slept together. Because a one-night stand is not an ongoing relationship, there is no need to censor yourself anymore.
What to avoid are dirty conversations that go beyond the first date. Your first night out together can provide a more intimate exploration into one another.
Remember, you are going out on a short trip so it is not a great time to have a quick discussion about your past. Before you take off on a long journey, you should talk first. You may want to bring up a past issue, but do not dwell on it too much.
One of the things no one ever tells you about one-night stands is the fact that they almost always involve a person who is outgoing and active. You may want to make sure that you know what your date is like and ask them about their likes and dislikes. If you are meeting up with someone who does not seem up for anything “special”, it may be best to steer clear.
Secondly, get out of the early morning and late evening rush. It may sound weird but women are more susceptible to having a premature ejaculation when they are going out with someone who is simply taking them to dinner. A few drinks earlier, and it could have happened during dinner. If this is a possibility, you may want to opt for a hotel suite.
Last minute changes are also good to stay away from. Having someone else stay the night at your place is a great way to avoid last minute packing and rushing to get ready. Many of the large hotels now offer same-day service, which makes things very convenient.
Thirdly, a one-night stand is not your first time. A little experimentation with your partner before you decide to go all the way is always a good idea. If you don’t know much about each other, see if you can create some “story time” by setting the mood. That way, you both feel like a little older gentleman or lady when you first meet.
You may find that candlelight and some light music are just what you need to pull things off, rather than the complicated and expensive (and often embarrassing) more traditional and romantic type of bedtime stories. Another good option would be to try some light whispering while playing with your partner.
Fourthly, the language you use can say a lot about the person you are. It doesn’t matter if you had just met, you had just broken up or you are engaged. Language is important, and women tend to be very sensitive to everything.
So if you are curious to know more about what people may not tell you about one-night stands, ask someone you know. Or better yet, don’t bother asking, it is safe to say that you probably won’t get the answers you want.